So it's late. I should be in bed. But my head keeps spinning around and around.
We ran into a person tonight who was part of our lives before we were married. His first reaction to seeing us was "oh, look who's still together!" How horrible is that? Then he proceeded to tell Tyler that we've overcome the odds. He also asked about a few others who were married not long after us. Seriously, though? The nerve of some people. I try not to let people get my goat. I try to focus on my life and not what other people think of me, my husband and my choices. But tonight I got annoyed, really annoyed. Some people say things in spite but this man just had a giant lack of tact. I didn't even flinch when Tyler called him a jackass under his breath when he walked away. Wrong or not, right now I don't really care.
I find it horrible that, from the very beginning, someone would sit there and believe that we were meant to fail. What a lack of faith! Yeah, we didn't exactly have the best start and it hasn't always been wonderful but we are still married. It's hard as hell and no one ever said it would be perfect. But we've made it this far, even if it's holding on by the tips of our fingers.
So here's my heartfelt cry to everyone out there who felt like we were doomed from the start:
just put your opinion and your agenda aside, be a decent human being and leave us the hell alone.
We ran into a person tonight who was part of our lives before we were married. His first reaction to seeing us was "oh, look who's still together!" How horrible is that? Then he proceeded to tell Tyler that we've overcome the odds. He also asked about a few others who were married not long after us. Seriously, though? The nerve of some people. I try not to let people get my goat. I try to focus on my life and not what other people think of me, my husband and my choices. But tonight I got annoyed, really annoyed. Some people say things in spite but this man just had a giant lack of tact. I didn't even flinch when Tyler called him a jackass under his breath when he walked away. Wrong or not, right now I don't really care.
I find it horrible that, from the very beginning, someone would sit there and believe that we were meant to fail. What a lack of faith! Yeah, we didn't exactly have the best start and it hasn't always been wonderful but we are still married. It's hard as hell and no one ever said it would be perfect. But we've made it this far, even if it's holding on by the tips of our fingers.
So here's my heartfelt cry to everyone out there who felt like we were doomed from the start:
just put your opinion and your agenda aside, be a decent human being and leave us the hell alone.
1 comment:
That's TERRIBLE! The nerve of some people! I agree with you, keep you opinion to yourself! I know for a fact that there were/are people that didn't have any faith about me and Zach because we did things so fast. Well here's to them! *Fist shake!* With God all things are possible, even the crazy youngins who decide to get hitched! I would have probably come unglued on that guy, but this kid is going crazy on my hormones right now. :) I love you Steppy!
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